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The Last Day

The Last Day

Posted on March 22, 2021March 22, 2021 by David Lee Stone

I can remember the first and the last time I ever went in there: the first as an 8-year-old kid and the second as a 22-year-old man gaffer-taped to a wheelie chair.

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Butt Out

Posted on March 21, 2021 by David Lee Stone

I grew up in a family of smokers who smoked in between smokes. My mum was the lesser of the these: she only smoked Superkings and bought them in packs of twenty at the local shop. When she couldn’t get Superkings, she would smoke other brands but the fact that she needed to get them from the shop did at least mean she didn’t smoke constantly.

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Legover Jack

Legover Jack

Posted on March 17, 2021March 16, 2021 by David Lee Stone

When I was growing up, I had a lot of ‘Uncles’. Now, I’m not saying my mum slept around: she didn’t (as far as I know), but our house was always full of people who liked to drink….often at the expense of a new suit. I’m not blaming them: I like to drink, too….but I tend to stop if I begin to fill my trousers before I can get to the toilet.

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The Sloth Workout

Posted on March 16, 2021 by David Lee Stone

“Ah, young Mr Stone – do come in.”
“Thanks, Doc!”
“You look good.”
“Thanks! I feel great!”
“Indeed. Do take a seat. Now….um…..your mother tells me you’ve lost six stone in two months?”

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Your Dog Thinks You’re HIS Dog

Posted on March 7, 2021March 9, 2021 by David Lee Stone

When I finally decided that my dog had some sort of mental health issue, I didn’t mess around. I immediately splashed the cash and called in the professional: a £50 per day dog whisperer called Anita who lived on the borders of Kent and claimed to offer a life-changing service for pets AND their owners. This is the email I sent her…

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Ending Your Marriage At Costa

Posted on March 5, 2021March 9, 2021 by David Lee Stone

I’ve only been at Costa for ten minutes, and I’m just about to write a really scathing attack on a well-known supermarket when I suddenly overhear: “So, you wait until we’ve got four kids before you decide it’s her you want and not me.” I don’t turn around. I sit back in my chair, very slowly, and…

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The Summer of ’88

Posted on March 3, 2021March 9, 2021 by David Lee Stone

The regression therapist leans across the couch, looks at me and says: ‘So let me get this straight, David, you’re ten years old and there’s this girl you really like…but she doesn’t like you because you don’t have the right BMX bike.’

‘YES. Exactly.’

‘Okay….so, despite the fact that you were – by your own admission – awkward, didn’t like making eye contact, regularly ran away from girls, often wet yourself at school and occasionally even fainted in front of them, it was definitely the BIKE she didn’t like.’

I glare at him. ‘Are you saying it WASN’T the bike?’

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Press Here to Restart Your Life

Posted on February 28, 2021March 9, 2021 by David Lee Stone

Life can be like driving a very fast car in difficult conditions…and the bumps and scrapes can damage both you and the people around you. Between 1997 and 2016, I wrote twenty eight books and two short stories for a bunch of the biggest publishing companies in the world. This journey transformed me in many…

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Ginger!

Posted on February 27, 2021March 9, 2021 by David Lee Stone

If I had to pick a single image, logo or icon to represent me, I’m pretty sure that it would end up being this one!

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Loneliness, Isolation and Feeling Different

Posted on February 24, 2021March 9, 2021 by David Lee Stone

My worst school memory was the day I first felt really different to other kids. The teacher asked a question that probably wouldn’t be asked these days: she asked what everyone’s dad did for a living. I didn’t have a dad but not everyone in the class knew that and so, as the answers were given and it came closer and closer to my turn, I got more and more anxious about whether or not to lie and just say he was a fireman or a policeman or something the other kids would be impressed by. In fact, I needn’t have worried: I wet myself before my turn – probably out of sheer panic – so I ended up embarrassed for a completely different reason.

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Sometimes, I make big mistakes…..but they’re never my fault: not really. Here’s an example, so you can judge for yourself.
Do you want to see what depression looks like? I recently found this video I shot while experiencing one of the worst bouts of depression I’ve endured in recent years. It’s almost funny to see how dead in the eyes I am until the light comes on and I engage robot mode in order to speak. The content of the video isn’t really important. Oh - and my wife is AMAZING. ❤️🤦‍♂️
Nostalgia can be a curse and to prove it I’ve created a list of ten times in my life that I made a decision I’ve always slightly regretted. This is a really important thing to do and if you’re going to do it right then you have to be constructive and try to determine whether in all probability you’re either right or wrong in each case. I’m serious. If the Road to Hell is paved with good intentions, then I strongly suspect that the Path to Dissatisfaction is paved with overly nostalgic memories, especially ones involving missed opportunities. If you’re autistic, an over-thinker or even just an unusually reflective person, then retrospective analysis is probably a huge part of your mental landscape. In simple terms, retrospective analysis is where you overplay conversations in your head after the event, often applying your own biased narrative to anything that was said. What you end up coming out with can potentially do catastrophic damage to friendships and relationships or even destroy them completely. It’s a curse of a burden to bear, which is why I find movies like ’13 Going on 30′ so incredibly difficult to watch (more on the blog - link in bio)
I’m at the mind-bendingly lush Harris & Hoole coffee shop at Tesco Extra just before Christmas, quietly considering whether I’d like to select drowning in their cappuccinos as my chosen method of death, when one of the two guys sitting at the table next to me leans across to his mate and says something that actually makes me spill some of my coffee into the saucer. He says:
The original cover for my 2008 funny pirate fantasy novel, Davey Swag (published in the UK by Hodder).
“It’s Davey from Blockbuster in Ramsgate: store code 260116. I’d like to place a large stock order, please.”

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